You have to learn to say no without feeling guilty. Setting boundaries is healthy. You need to learn to respect and take care of yourself.
othering trans women just to say some catch all vaguely feminist zinger is never worth it sorry!! anti-penis rhetoric does nothing to expose the pervasive and institutionalized sexism woven into our world anyway so whats the point!! get that shit outta my face, out of my blogosphere, and far far away from my feminism
like there are literally millions of people who suffer from mental illness but can’t access decent care, so every time i see someone go on a tangent about self-diagnosers i want to ask them what they think those people should do instead.
i am dead fucking serious. tell me. what do you recommend they do? because it kinda sounds like you don’t give a fuck, and that makes you an ableist, classist piece of shit.